|Genetic dead ends|
Nowhere in the article does the writer challenge the men or why the "feeling" is not there in a city (NYC) with millions of single women. If these guys can get any woman they want in a city with millions of women, why are they paying hundreds if not thousands per experience upwards of thousands a year for escorts? Falling birth rate for the West, why not ask financially secure men without kids why they are not thinking about kids and not the "love experience? That growing segment of irreligious that oftentimes dive into hedonistic pleasures today because there is no God and no afterlife so live for now and screw society's future would agree with these guys. Marriage and companionship? Bah, who needs it, and anyway, I can just rent it. The media would never broach the subject of live for today at the expense of societal continuity, since they are actively pushing it.
Little nuggets reveal more to the problem of what modern women provide men in this article. Why are hookers working on their culinary skills and receiving compliments for being engaging listeners? Modern women lack cooking skills and just blabber on with no pause to stop and listen to their men. That complaint is common from men. Women have reduced relationships to keeping men using their multiple orifices and the lure of sex. If relationships are going to boil down to a sexual element with little to no companionship or emotional bonding (that's the Iphone's domain), they why would a man, still expected to pay, shell out money for meals and activities for the possibility of sex if the woman does not have a fickle moment when he can shell out money for a guaranteed attractive woman and know sex is happening. Besides the romanticized experiences of these few johns in the article, the other thousands if not millions of men using escorts are looking for someone who will be attentive to them if only for an hour. On advertisements they call it the king treatment because no one wants to advertise the 1950s housewife treatment your grandmother gave your grandpa. Grandpa walks in the door from a long day of work, gripes about work that your grandmother did not care at all about, and eats a meal cooked for him with his favorite drink in hand. Cooking a meal was a sign of love or care. Your grandmother did not have to, but she did it. How many women today are doing that? It is like the psychiatry patients who talk to shrinks not for therapy or a mental illness but because they think that for forty five minutes someone, anyone, is just listening to them.
There will be no article on the death of 1950s mom, but we get these articles on high end johns and escorts. They cannot mention the decline of home life because they push its breakdown. They also have to avoid the awful bargain marriage can be. The smartest commentary on modern America in the article was not in the article but in the comments. Reader Kevin Michael Reily comments.
If the marriage doesn't work out, the woman gets the house the kids, the car, and alimony. I see all these married men with wives who complain, spend their money and then talk all about what a man has to do for a woman. A lot of American men are "just alimony slaves" who are controlled by their wives. Of course not all marriages are like this but MILLIONS of them are. That is what women fail to accept. The man pays for everything..and all they do is show up. Of course they love this system.That obvious rules of the game reality was missing in the article. He is right. Broken men screwed over in divorce court number in the millions and dwarf the number of guys using high end escorts. This is a disincentive that men respond to by not marrying or even looking for a long term relationships when they can get sex from many women for free or high class ass for a fee. Michael Strahan's ex accused him of being gay, hitting her and cheating, which made it into the newspapers. She also received $15 mil of his $23 mil in wealth. I am unsure if that included the 50-50 split of their home when it sold for $3.3 million. That was despite a prenup that put 20% of his earnings in a secure account for her. Prenup was tossed. Strahan lost. What wealthy guy wants to walk into that divorce racket? If Strahan cannot protect himself with a prenup, will you? Contracts between consensual adults are the rage, so why not pay a college girl to cary your kid to pay off some of her student loans? The media will not mention the landmine that is family law because it is a system they foster. The divorce fantasy programming they broadcast is constant whether news segments or the latest Julia Roberts movie product. As the commenter said, women get what they want and it is on their whim. In our dark corner of the Internet, we know the game is rigged in their favor with financial rewards even if they are at fault, but this cannot be discussed in broad daylight because more people are noticing and angry.
Funny thing is, they never come out and discuss the idiocy of prostitution's illegal status in comparison to pornography nor other nations' licensing rules. If the media will push Weeks/Knox why not push legalization of prostitution? Safe, legal, rare? Is this the one sexual endeavor that can remain puritan in spirit? It was a national scandal of the week when a Zumba fitness instructor was found to be running a brothel (she was the lone employee) in Maine. Did anyone discuss the stupidity of prostitution laws since the thing that got her jail time was filming men having sex without their knowledge? No. Just tabloid coverage, and the hypocrisy hand wringing as whispers spread of what high profile men in southern Maine might be on the client list. The local NBC weatherman had to make a statement that he was not on the list. No discussion of what is behind the law when a clearly business savvy woman and male partner are running a six figure escort service with no advertising and no harm done to her.
This is another sex positive, pro-sex worker media piece. Like the Weeks/Knox story, the media can dip into the story only where it wants to dig to push the progressive agenda. The Observer can inform us of these Secret Diary of a Call Girl fantasy escorts, who do exist but in small numbers. Unfortunately, they are outnumbered by the strippers going the extra mile, meth/crack/coke addicted hookers and foreign women being trafficked around the nation. Stay at a decent hotel in a major metropolitan area, and downstairs in their bar is a pretty girl tapping her foot and nursing a drink who approaches you and comes with her own menu. It's the sexual black market; pure capitalism and growing. A deeper discussion might persuade Americans to legalize prostitution if it meant more resoruces fighting trafficking. Soon to be joining those numbers of escorts are 20-somethings with student loans to pay off but no jobs, redefining the old term white slavery. These top shelf johns are just so romantic and dreamy. They just need a quick fix of a wonderful experience. Don't bother asking what they will do in thirty years. I'm sure retired escorts attend the funerals of their dearest clients. The article can only go so far in discussing why these men seek high end rentals because to do any deeper digging or pontificate on the family law system would be to inflict wounds on the very system the media has enabled.