I had to carefully word the title to throw off the bots. When I was looking into the HIV shutdown of the porn industry, STI testing and useful idiot James Deen, I ran across some links that seemed interesting but I had little clue what to do with them.
Jenna Jameson, who left porn after she sold her website to Playboy for millions, is now back webcamming and looking to perform in porn again. Seems like the drugs, bad spending and divorce money drains got to Jameson. This came a couple of months after another performer retired in tears, Jenna Presley (age 26). Maxim had her listed as a top 12 pornstar in 2010. At least Jezebel is giving some pub to Jameson's walk of shame back to the industry, but I doubt anyone in the mainstream media will comment on it. Just like they stay silent on the porn stars who catch HIV but don't cause a shutdown, the suicides or early deaths. Jameson was a super successful performer, and even she cannot escape the industry.
These announcements reminded me of another former glamour nude model who showed up in Playboy and was a Penthouse Pet of the Month that retired, crapped on the industry and there was not a peep from the media about the industry that they enable. Here is Erica Rose Campbell's letter to fans roughly 6 years ago announcing her retirement. All she did was nude model and those Playboy strip and dance around naked flicks that used to be on Pay Per View scramblevision style. She retired because she found God, but if you know her family also coincided when a horrible tragedy occurred and her experience as a nude model was used in the appeal by the convicted perp who victimized her relative. Campbell's brother was a friend of a friend. Interesting stories like Ron Jeremy and established porn performers going to glamour model shoots cajoling and enticing them to shoot hardcore scenes. One of the hooks was "you can just do solo and girl-girl". What will they do Ron after the phone calls for those scenes stop?
Sick Mind of a Cuckold
Some female performers are tighter about who they work with due to STI testing. They have their "suitcase pimps" that work out their deals. Some suitcase pimp are the husbands. This link to a blog for omega males and their hot wives. The interview is with a guy who is his pornstar wife's agent, photographer, videographer and all around lackey. It is kind of disturbing to read the twisted mind of a guy who considers his perversion an all encompassing lifestyle with a wife who entered porn after age 40. Reading his comments, the guy comes across as wishing he were in the place of his wife having sex. Younger men, all races, gangbangs, it does not matter to him. Snooping around, I found interviews where she claimed they both engaged in swinging, she defended his manhood and she said he has lots of sex. In the interview linked above, it sounds like he just watches.
I blogged about cuckold porn before because enough people tweeted about it. The porn is completely different from the actual sickos engaging in the practice because of the audience. Cuckold porn is mostly just cheating porn. Cuckold enthusiasts are a super small subset of married couples. The McKinsey Institute, which promotes all numbers of perversion, lists swingers as 4 million in North America (2-4% of married couples). Hotwifing is a smaller group within the swinger class. Donald Ley at Psychology Today wrote some essays on cuckolds as he was researching a book. His reasons for the men pushing "hotwifing" line up with a lot of the amateur, armchair psychologist tweets of Arronski. Gay thoughts, masochism, wanting to think they have a wife worthy of banging, weird "king" feeling, and a variety of stupidity. These guys make up maybe 1% of guys out there. They are sick losers.
It is weird that such a small subset of men would make such a juicy target for Heartiste. It seems rather redundant since his audience automatically considers them omegas. Why bother? Well, a good thing to do when promoting oneself is to find the antithesis of your market and style and constantly contrast to it. You think those ambulance chasing lawyers targeting minorities with ads during Maury Povich have a grey haired white man in the role of "insurance claim denier" for another reason? Cuckold fetishists are demented losers, but their kink, other guys banging their woman, is the direct opposite of that Game lifestyle where you go out to bang a lot of quality women. Ultimate loser giver compared to ultimate cool taker. Nice clean contrast.
There is something else at play, and the Last Psych essay on the Guinness ad and men not being men fits in. Men, and women, have roles to twisted up now or unnecessary compared to days of old that men flounder, have forgotten how to be men and are incredibly insecure about their masculinity. These dumb cuck fetishists are small in number, not worth anyone's time, but they are a useful stand-in to say "you are not a real man". Men have a word to say to one another when a friend pulls some shit, "don't be such a faggot", which is why every sports coach across America calls an underperforming or weak player that word in practice. It is a direct assault on your masculinity because you know what it really means, "you're a weak entity who gets banged by other men". When criticizing gays, we must be careful now (plus, Game/PUA overlaps enough with gays to make things awkward.). You also would have your website purged if you constantly made fun of gays and typed "stupid faggot" non-stop, but no one will bat an eye if you insult men by calling them "stupid cuckolds".