Sunday, September 23, 2012

People Talking About Cuckold Porn

I've noticed a running theme on the manosphere sites and tweets about cuckold porn. Even the sexperts on women's sites like to spotlight the draw to it is the excitement of discovery or the masochistic joy of being humiliated by the discovery. That is pretty true and a good summary of one point of view with cuckold porn. This is the problem with a lot of short posts or essays on porn. Often the writer just writes from one POV. Porn is a utopian presentation of human relations but who is it utopian for? Multiple POVs have different utopian interpretations of the scene. There's actually multiple interpretations and they reflect on the sad state of men's view of themselves and women in current American society.

Long in the making, I have a giant porn post coming discussing how porn really reflects the sad state of affairs for American men and society as a whole. It should probably just be an ebook. Cuckold porn was a section of it. I'll put my cuckold porn thoughts here.


Cuckold porn also is split between simple cheating sex scenes, and then explicitly set up as the husband or boyfriend wants to see his wife have sex with an interloper or bull. Cuckold porn should consider five types of viewers. It is not solely for the losers who get off on the idea of a stranger banging their wife. This also has an alpha-beta-omega hierarchy to it, but one has to consider the point of view of the viewer. In reality, how many men watch porn for the 'story' presented in the situation or pairing? Most are just searching for the female performer's name and clicking the screen. Let's review the five viewers...

 
Non-Utopian Viewer

1. Guys searching for the female performer - They don't pay attention to the short set up of the scene. They just want to see >fill in the blank porn star< have sex. They most likely don't even realize its cuckold porn. This is a decent chunk of viewers of all niches of porn.

Utopian Viewers

2. Female viewers - Straight female viewers of porn exist. Those who watch cuckold porn probably enjoy the power the female in the scene has of cheating on her husband, whether caught or not caught. There could be the allure of exoticism if it is interracial cuckold porn, as
well as the idea that a female can be so attractive to any man who is near that he must have her. There is also the idea that a husband might want her to cheat, admitting he is not virile enough to satisfy her.

3. Cuckold fetishists - These are the guys who love the idea of another man banging his woman. Oh wow, my woman is hot enough that other guys want her! It's that idea that appeals to them. Very omega and creepy.

4. Guys watching for the female performer + slight subconscious thought of what a whore she is - These guys mostly watch for the female performing. In the back of their minds though is the idea that this woman, no mater how secure + wealthy, is a dirty, easy slut who will cheat. It doesn't matter if she's a mom, a wife, about to host a party, she will bang anyone. There is a creepy anxiety into the approach to the scene as well. Women can't be trusted! What a hot looking whore!

5. Guys who think "I could sleep with these rich and successful guy's hot wives if only I had the chance because I'm so cool, women will just throw themselves at me" - These guys aren't as pathetic as the omega males who get off on cuckoldry, but these are the guys who watch cuckold porn because they envision themselves in the role of the interloper. They are the guy so awesome that the married, rich, bored, MILF, older female will not resist. These guys blame society or being poor for not having chicks. Pay attention to how the husband, if shown before or after the sex scene, is portrayed in contrast to the guy having the sex. It's quite comical. The bull or interloper is always the protagonist, cool regular Joe, while the woman's beau is a loser of some sort.

It's quite sad, too. These #5 guys aren't the disturbed fetish losers of #3, but they are a sad, significant set of viewers of cuckold porn. This is one of their utopian views of sex, life, and women. To project themselves into that interloper sex role, they have to identify with it. They have to consider themselves not able to get a hot wife or have a good life. They have to be on the fringe or worse off. They have to also view women as that slutty and easy, which reveals their view of women. Look at college enrollment stats and the mancession graphics, this is reality now for these men.


I'd also point out how cuckold porn is pretty popular as a subset of interracial porn. In just about every possible ethnic pairing. Socioeconomic status games are at play and reflected here. Besides white cuckold fetishists, maybe black men view themselves as so alpha they can get the chicks whenever they want, but gosh darn it in the real world, they don't have the means. They actually have low status, worth, or little material wealth and accomplishments. They cant get these hot chicks (black or white), and they are stuck fucking fatties!!!!! "Damn you society and my place on the status pole!!!!!!", common black male refrain. Just another duality of black men in America.

All porn videos get made because someone wants to see them. On the Net, porn videos get uploaded because there is enough of an audience to push for them to be uploaded. Many guys in America fall into category 1, where they are just looking for a specific female and care little for the set up. Porn has devolved so much and so quickly that I'd argue the 'hook' to the porn is more in the actual pairing, who or what initiates the sex, and how does it finish (that is for another post). The fact that there are enough men who fall into categories 4 and 5 is a pretty sad reflection of the state of gender relations and the status of men in the USA in general.

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